We were very excited to discover the gender of our baby today and watch her wave and stretch and kick, instead we found a little girl with no heartbeat. The baby stopped growth somewhere between 12-14 weeks. We are devastated. I type this through my tears. I am so very heart broken and sad and feel so bad that I was not there by my surrogates side. We were watching over the computer. All I can say at this point is I love her very much, I love my little girl and we have to figure out what we do next. I am waiting to hear back from her about what the doctor says. I am just so beyond sad right now.
She has already said we will try again as soon as we can. I love her so much!